Observations from Me & Help From You

Dona

The washer is a 12 step program- I am on my second machine, and I have the stink problem down- after my deddy told me our clothes stunk one day, I decided I had better figure it out!
We watch Nick Jr- love it!
Wait till Morgan turns 10- sniff,sniff…
We really love Raiger too!!!!!!
We traveled on a plane with 2- 9 month olds, then 2- 18 month olds, were we on crack? The people around us thought we were. We could not sit together and the man who was supposed to sit beside my sweet baby boy and me asked to be moved before we took off- nice! We tried several different things, I’ll call you about them, I don’t want DHR knocking on my door!
Glad y’all are all better!!!

Jennifer

Time away, ALONE is so important. It’s amazing how even 2 hours at Starbucks with a good book will refill my gas tank for the week. Here’s how I’ve gotten some time like that in the past (before my kids got into the horrendous Sat. AM schedule that is soccer, soccer, soccer).

Every Saturday AM my husband makes “Daddy Breakfast”. He makes such a big deal out of it, that the kids think it’s a big deal and nobody minds that I sleep in and then sneak out. He makes bacon, eggs, hashbrowns and toast every Saturday morning. At my leisure, I get up and scoot out to Starbucks for some tea and a good book or studying (which I sometimes have to do). I come back to a pretty cluttered house, but refreshed and ready for family time.

By the way, grocery shopping alone, while it is a treat, DOES NOT COUNT AS ALONE TIME. Do not let anybody try to con you into that one!

Chelle

We have the whirlpool brand for about 4 years now. I had a time with the odor issue, I am married to the best man on this earth, but he has issues like one being OCD he cleans all the time and was ready to get rid of as he called it expensive stinky machine!! So we did what the manual called for with the bleach to no avail. But I think we finally figured it out. Use only HE products and leave the door open when not in use. So far this has worked for several months. Being a stay at home grandmother, yes I said grandmother I watch alot of kids shows and I do agree that there just isn’t much fit to watch for adults. Man that pie looked yummy, made me wish that was what the girls and I were having for lunch today. One thing about having a house full of babies is no there is not much time for yourself and yes it is hard to venture out with them but believe me this time in your life will go by so very fast you really won’t believe it when it’s gone. I will not tell you to stop and enjoy it because I know thru your post you already are just try to cherish it alittle more and with time and God’s blessings you will enter another phase of life to learn to cherish too. Me, I am learning that my days are filled with dirty diapers, sticky fingers and walls that now need repainting and for this I am the most blessed grandmother on my street and may I add the happiest.

Michelle

Hi Darby!!! My hubby works 8-8 M-F and usually one weekend day. I feel so guilty for wanting alone time when we get such a short amount of time together as a family. I absoultly decided that because I am with our 3 and 1 year old pretty much 24/7 that I needed alone time. It makes me a better person and better mother. I decided to hire a nanny/mothers helper to come to the house for 3 hours per week. It’s not a lot, but believe me do I cherish those 3 hours to do whatever it is I want to do. I feel guilty for spending the money because I am perfectly capable of taking care of my own children, but it’s cheaper than going insane and needing therapy right?? We all need time to be alone with our thoughts.

Amy

We had the same problem with our front loader too, but not anymore. We figured out you need to drain the machine after a days worth of washing. The machine holds alot of extra water in a reservoir somewhere and it gets stinky just sitting in there. There is a drain tube on the bottom of the front of the machine. We drain ours into a bucket and dump it down the sink. Since I have been doing this our clothes have not had that bad odor. It is rather a pain though, but something I will have to put up with. Good luck!

Rebecca

Lots of comments from me…
I’m so sorry about all the crud at your house! Leighton’s been under the weather for about 3 weeks now. Her heel is hurt leading to dr visits-lots of them, she’s cutting 4 molars and yesterday she started a runny nose. Yuck!
We hate tv too. We actually cut it off completely (I do miss it sometimes but not too much) and I’m appalled every time we see even a commercial now. You are so right-totally inappropriate! As far as Levi goes, he drives me up the wall too. Of course it’s been a while since I’ve seen/heard him but it makes me so sad that he’s using his baby and past relationship for fame.
Let me know how the plane ride goes. We’re taking Leighton to Italy soon and it will be her first plane ride. We may be a little crazy but I’m (mostly) excited for a big family vacation. Of course, we have a passport for her but the rules are different when you leave the country.
Glad we reconnected. I love keeping up with you and Erika through your blogs. I’ll be praying for your trip!

ebfurge

Darby, I check your blog often and love it. We don’t know each other, but have so much in common. 1) my front-loader also stinks. My husband googled it and discovered that there was a lawsuit several years ago with Maytag (our brand) over the mold issue. Mold actually grows in it. We wash and immediately transfer the clothes to the dryer (hard when we have a busy house of 8,6, and 3 year old boys and a little girl on the way). Then leave the door open until it dries out. 2) I don’t like TV and was watching Levi last night too. So disturbing. How does a young boy turn out like that? 3) We do not sleep with our children. Thank God we never started that…and we are still as bonded and love them as much as parents who do. 4)I need to get out more, but after a long day, it is hard to get motivated. 5) Reading blogs inspires me creatively and also helps me feel like I get out more! We all need to get out on our own. 6) While I am typing my boys (all 3, who have been out of school for 2 wks., are running from room to room acting like dogs and riding on each others’ backs)! Take care!

Hilary

Hello- I read your blog all the time, but I have never commented. So- front loader stink problem: I have found it usually clears up with bleach, but even better, run a cycle through with white vinegar. That works well too. I just started making my own laundry detergent, and have had NO problems AT ALL since I started using it. Maybe its the detergents that are doing it. I’d be happy to share the recipe if you’re interested. It’s SUPER easy and SUPER cheap after one initial investment of $25. Also- getting out alone for me usually happens at bedtime. My husband puts the kiddos to bed (I have 3) and I sneak out to breathe for an hour or two. Also, for planes- we take gum and suckers for the takeoff and landing and books and crayons are the best.

Michelle

Darby,
I love, love, love your blog. I have replaced my tv time with blog reading b/c you can’t even watch football on the weekends with your kids anymore b/c the commercials are so offensive, your children could get nightmares from it.
On the front loader issue, I also use white vinegar. I run a load of towels with vinegar and then the same load of towels with detergent. Then I keep it from getting that way again by leaving the door open on the washer all the time.
I was a little disappointed to realize that my nice, new, more expenseive front loader was actually high maintenance and kind of a pain in the rear.
Love your blog! Your kids are adorable! Your family is adorable!
Good luck with your washer!

Angela

About the ulcer…I believe sometimes they are bacterial? (I am NOT an expert) and need medication for treatment. Something to think about if it doesn’t go away.

Airplane travel with kids — we’ve done this three or four times with one kid (when she was 1, 1 1/2, and 2). Honestly, not as bad as I would have thought. Harder the more mobile she got, so Rover could be a challenge. To me the hard part is lugging around all the kids stuff. I am guessing your three and four year old could help a little with their own bags? Hopefully it’s a direct flight. Just get there early in case you have to make several trips from the car to the baggage counter. The more bulky things you can have provided at your destination (pack n plays, strollers, car seats, etc) by grandparents or friends the easier that will be! I will even buy diapers and that kind of thing once we get there. We’ve usually been lucky about other passengers, some of them even helped us carry our car seat on, etc. (Maybe they were all rolling their eyes behind our backs)

Time away is a must for mommys…I don’t do this enough. Moms are good at having massive guilt complexes. I have one of these. Michelle Obama (also not getting political) has pointed out that men always seem to carve out personal time, why do we feel so guilty about it as moms? When my husband started playing softball once a week last summer, I started getting out once a month by myself. It made me a nicer, less resentful person.

Yes, most of TV is trash. We don’t have a TV, just a computer we watch a few shows/movies a week on. That’s enough.

Ginger

Hey Darby, so sorry you all have been so sick. On the bright side, you’re all over it before the holidays! You do need time for yourself. I try to go to Yoga once a week in the evenings when my husband gets home from work. It is such a nice moment for myself. OR I try to get up early, early before the house wakes up and take our dog for a walk and watch the sunrise. A friend recently had the same predicament with her laundry. A plumber diagnosed that the hot water heater had to be replaced and now it’s fine. TAKE CARE!! P.S. ever tried Emergen C’s? Little packs of b vitamins, etc…that give a natural boost.

Debbie Hall

Hope you get your energy back soon! My front-load washer also smelled mildewy and I used diluted bleach a half a million paper towels to clean the rubber(?) liner around the washer’s opening. Mine has kind of a flap that I could lift up clean around and under – not sure if this makes sense or if your washer even has this liner or seal thing. As a mom of 5, I can tell you your best friend on the airplane will be snacks…the kind you usually wouldn’t allow!
A friend of mine had her child scream on a plane for over an hour when the stewardess asked her,”Isn’t there SOMETHING you can do?” My friend just smiled and said, “If there was, don’t you think I would have ALREADY done it?!?!?!?” If he screams, just smile at the people who give you dirty looks and tell them you’ll pray for their attitude!

Jennifer

We have traveled a lot with our 2 kids at all ages (parents on both sides of the country and us in the middle). It is an adventure. Most of all, remember that at the end of the trip you will all have awesome memories of it, and you really won’t remember the 15 minutes your kid cried [because they will cry; it’s OK]. The kids will always remember going on an airplane.

Shlepping stuff is hard, but as long as there are 2 adults, you can manage. You just have to tag team a lot. And check everything that you can. I find that the hardest part is just getting from the car to the ticket counter. After that, a weight is lifted (in the form of all those suitcases, carseats, etc.) and the fun begins.

You do not need ID for your kids unless you are trying to bring Rover as a lap child — then some airlines (Southwest) will make you (sometimes) show a birth certificate to show he is under 2. If you buy tickets for everyone, you will not need to show any ID re: the kids. The security guy will just look at their boarding passes and ask them, “Are you Paige?” Etc.

I would not bother bringing the carseats on the plane. People feel differently about this. On the one hand it is nice to have them strapped in on the plane. But on the other, it is another thing to carry, and you don’t really need it. The kids can just use the seatbelts on the plane like the rest of us. We always check our carseats (you might want to buy a carseat bag [or 3] to put them in, but it’s not necessary — the airline will put them in plastic bags if you don’t have a special bag). If you do want to bring your seats on board, make sure they are marked “FAA approved” on their bottoms; otherwise, a vigilant flight attendant will probably not even let you bring them on.

Here are my tips for what to bring on the plane:
1. DVD player, laptop, iPod — whatever electronic gadgets will entertain your kids for a brief period. They are worth their weight.
2. Books. Let each kid pick 5 (or so) books to bring with the rule that NO HARDBACKS can come (too heavy!). I sometimes go to a used bookstore before a trip and buy, like, 20 of those little paperback easy readers to take.
3. Snacks. Put a big ziploc of them in each carry-on and your purse so they are always within arms reach and not floating around everywhere. That is within the big ziploc have lots of little bags of snacks. NO CHOCOLATE AT ALL (including granola bars with chocolate chips). I find that we always eat all the fruit snacks we bring! They are great for take off and landing. Other good snacks to bring are goldfish, pretzels, animal crackers, cereal. Don’t bother with anything that has to be kept cold or that is sticky. There is plenty of time to eat healthy once you get there.
4. Bring one empty sippy cup with a filter (or little water bottle that won’t spill) for each kid. That’s it. You can fill them at a water fountain once you go through security. Make sure they have the filters in so they won’t spill when turned on their sides. And you really don’t need more than one per person. They can just drink water on the plane.
5. An extra outfit for each kid AND an extra shirt for you. Just in case.
6. Lots of wipes, but just enough diapers to get you to your folks. Buy diapers when you get there. OR, if your mom is truly awesome, which I believe she is, just send her a list ahead of time of what you need her to have waiting (diapers, baby shampoo, special foods, etc.).
7. A couple extra plastic grocery bags. Just in case.
8. One spiral notebook per kid, a baggie of crayons (don’t need too many) and tons of stickers. My daughter once spent a whole flight just peeling stickers and putting them in a notebook.
9. Extra pacifiers.
10. Lollipops. In case things get bad. I am not above bribery on an airplane.
11. ONE thing to read for you – a magazine or a paperback. I am always optimistic.

Stacey

HI Darby,
I’ve been reading your blog for months and really enjoy it. I have a front loader that smells as well, and I found a layer of YUCKY scum inside the rubber seal that surrounds the front of the drum where water gets caught and then smells. I just peeled it back and wiped it out with lysol….no real cure, but I probably won’t buy a front loading machine again!

Kelly

Oh man, I love your posts. The Raiger stuff about her wanting you to look at you? Literally laughing non-stop here. I don’t know why but it’s making me laugh out loud, tears from my eyes, laugh my you-know-what off.

My front loader stinks sometimes too. The clothes never stink so I try not to worry about it. I have heard you can run a load with vinegar and then a load with bleach and it can help clean it. And then probably another load after that to rinse it all clean. Not sure.

To fly with the kids you only need identification if you are not buying a seat for anyone under 2 years of age. If he screams then you will know you aren’t the only mom who has had a screaming baby on a plane. We’ve flown quite a bit and I suggest giving each child their own backpack and filling it with brand new things. That will keep them entertained. Also, dvds work if you have a portable player.

I have a 4 and almost 2 year old so not the same but I try to get out alone 1-2 times a week if possible. Even a trip to Target counts in my book. Even better if it’s my all female bible study or a trip for dessert with a girlfriend.

Television does suck! I pretty much only watch Martha Stewart. And Ellen more than I should.

Glad you are all feeling better!!

Amanda F

We agree with you. TV stinks. We haven’t had cable for years; our girls only watch PBS Kids or a pre-screened children’s DVD, and those don’t include much Disney. For the grown-ups, we prefer Netflix and what we can find at the library.
As for flying with little ones, we’ve done that a LOT. (Military family). I always prep a goody bag full of snacks and new surprises from the Dollar Store: a legal pad, color book, crayons, a mini Play-doh, stickers, Goldfish crackers, a juice box, a milk box, granola bars, etc. We pull one new thing out every 15 minutes or so. I also pack a few lollipops in my purse for emergencies, because what kid can scream with a deliciously sweet Safety-Pop in their mouth? Good luck!

Shannon

I don’t have children or a front load washer so I’m not much help to you, but I wanted to say that I’m glad everyone is feeling better! I hope Morgan has a wonderful 5th birthday!

Keri R.

I totally agree with you about tv. Its bad enough that the shows are aweful but the commercials are sometimes almost worse! I really have no help for you for anything else 🙂 My baby is 3 months today and it makes me want to cry, who knows how I will react when she turns 5. I would also like some just me time so let me know how that goes when you figure it out. When you first became a mom did you notice yourself narrating your whole day to your baby? I totally find myself doing that and I am not sure if its weird 🙂

for instance this sentence took place just a little while ago

You are going to take a nap and then Mommy is going to go potty and eat lunch and blog.

lol

Ashley

Darby! GLAD that you are finally feeling better – you had us all scared! What would we do without your blog 🙂 I can really only comment on the TV issue. I’d like to say that we got rid of cable for some very noble reasons…how it’s trash, it’s unproductive, it’s dangerous…sadly, we got rid of it because Mr. Bull is cheap! Ha! It makes lots of room for other, more necessary things! We still watch a couple of “smart” shows, but otherwise, I’m glad it’s not around! Although, the internet is just as dangerous – I can WASTE countless hours online when I should be doing other things!

Have so much fun up north – sounds like a blast! We are going to Auburn tomorrow…a “getaway” of sorts!

abby

To help get rid of the stinky washer problem I would pour some bleach into the rubber part at the front of the washer right inside the door. I do this about once a month because it can get a little mildew-y in there if all the water doesn’t dry out. Let the bleach sit for a while and then se paper towels and/or q-tips to really get in there and clean it out. Also, I run a load with no clothes and just bleach every once in a while. I always run a rinse cycle right after to make sure I get rid of all the bleach.

A dvd player{s} is super important when traveling with kids on an airplane. I just flew with my 2yr old and 6 mo old. Also, bring lots and lots of favorite snacks and treats for the kids. Suckers are good because it takes my toddler a while to finish one. May I suggest taking the kids to the store {or you go by yourself } and let them each pick out one new small toy that they could take on the plane. Don’t give it to them until you are in the air so they will be entertained with it for a while. We also took coloring books and books to keep our toddler occupied. Start talking about your plane right ahead of time and even get books that have airplanes in them so that they get excited about traveling by air.

Don’t worry, if your kids have a melt down on the airplane they won’t be the first. Remember the stewardess will be your new best friend. Don’t be afraid to ask for some milk, juice, or whatever your kids might need to make it through the flight.

Good luck!!

catherine

Hello Darby… our front loader stinks too… i run it on sanitary cycle (empty) with both bleach and vinegar at the same time. maybe there is a reason to do them separately, but both together works for us. If you have clothes that stink as a result (athletic clothes are the worst for retaining yuck smell) i run a load with baking soda added to the detergent and if it’s really bad, i will do the ‘soak’ cycle first with baking soda in it. Good luck with that.
As for Rover traveling… my son is 2 and loves to play with a tape measure (small, no sharp edges), it’s small and quiet and may be an option for entertainment. I can’t remember all that was already posted, but maybe you could hold a sucker for him to lick to keep him quiet for a bit? Hope it’s a fun trip!
Take care…

Kendra

Darby,
I loved this post! Glad your family is feeling better. Can’t WAIT to hear that recipe. It looks delish. : )

kat

Glad everyone is on the mend. Bring lots of toys for them on the plane, fun, interactive toys that they have never seen before. You will be surprised how accepting most people are, there will be a few idiots who will toss you some dirty looks, but most people will actually offer to lend a hand if needed when on a plane. I agree, a little time for mommy goes a long way for keeping your sanity in check. Be sure to schedule some time for yourself. You could even try to slip away during naptime on Saturday while Justin is home just to recharge. I love to go to Barne’s and Noble and curl up in a comfy chair with a big stack of magazines and cookbooks.

kel

so glad you are feeling better! love your blog!
re: travel – i’ve got three kids and have had them on planes since they were 10 months old+ (now 14 & 12 & 8). things that worked for us: little wrapped presents they could open at different intervals during the flight. Wrapping them made them more exciting! i took their favorite books and favorite snacks and for the babies/toddlers/little kids, i always made sure i had a bottle, sucker, gum (age appropriate) on take-off and landing to make sure their ears popped. there’s a fun little card game called “flying rubberneckers” that’s great for almost any age to play as you travel through airports and during the flight.
have a blast in Chicago…one of the places my kids loved (we ended up going two day sin a row) was the Museum of Science and Industry…they liked it better than the Field and the Shedd!
happy halloween!
kel

Becky

Don’t fear the plane! I flew from Detroit to Orlando last year with my 3 boys – 5, 3 and 10 months – and they all did great, much better than I’d expected. I’m sure your darling kids (who look like their perfect in all those pictures you post!) will sit quietly in their seats with their hands folded the whole time. 🙂

hilaryA

oh boy, flying with an 18 month old boy is a little daunting. i have no doubt the girls will do just fine, but rover, um, he’ll be your challenge. we just flew this weekend with our 3 year old girl and 18 month boy, so i have a little fresh advice.
1. if you can bring a car seat on for one of the girls that’ll be good. if you can (and i say IF b/c on one of our flights they let us do this, but not the other – depends on the flight attendants) switch the kids around. for take off and landing let one of the girls sit in it and then during the flight put rover in it. that way he’s confined. if he’s not confined he’ll be over e-ver-y-thing. 🙂
2. food, food, food. 🙂 special things like (these are some my kids like that i brought on our recent trip) caramel apple rice cakes, dried cranberries + apricots, chocolate teddy grams, and maybe a lollipop or two for the girls. any time my son would start rearing up i would pull out the food. seriously it makes for a smoother trip! of course, wipes to clean hands.
3. drinks. you can take drinks through security for the kids. milk, juice or water, doesn’t matter. security may check it, but that’s okay. put them in a large ziplock bag in case of spills! would hate to add another “stress-er” of a bag of wet stuff! do the girls have back packs? they can wear theirs – maybe?
4. i didn’t worry about toys for my son. i felt like i would be hauling stuff with me that he’d look at for 5-10 seconds and then throw it. it wasn’t worth the extra weight.
5. no identification needed. i think that’s only for international flights. fyi: all shoes and sweaters/jackets have to come off through security – even the kids!
6. bring your stroller – mainly for rover. the girls should be fine. it’s fun to walk and it lets out their energy to sit for a while. one big tip for rover is to let him walk around about 15 minutes before the flight. let him go where ever and just follow along. he may get really restless on the plane if he goes straight from the strapped stroller to your lap.
7. dvd does work. make sure you charge it! i THOUGHT I did for our first flight, but nope. coloring books are great for the girls and don’t take up a lot of room. books are good, but can weigh you down. ink stamps are fun and small. $1 section at target is good, but don’t get their stickers. they’re too hard to get off. sing airplane songs.
8. the people around you will either completely understand b/c they’ve been there or they will just be completely annoyed the whole time. it’s not like you won’t be completely annoyed too if rover screams the whole time, right?! 🙂 your flight should only be about 2.5 hours and it’s loud up there anyway.
9. final thought (sorry this is so long!) – don’t worry about taking anything for you and justin to do. i used to think i’d be able to have a moment to yourself, but reality is you won’t have any time for reading a book or whatever. read the skymall mag or just simply sit there and enjoy the free moment. 🙂
happy traveling! i’ll say a prayer for you!

Amanda

My front loader stinks too! I leave it open and never leave clothes in it, but alas – the moldy smell. I know there are all kinds of cleaners and such that you run through a cycle, but my sis-in-law suggested that every so often I run it, empty, on a sanitation cycle to kill the germs and smell.

My kids (8, 7, 5, 3) are only allowed to watch the Disney channel and Nick. Jr, so I don’t know how we’re going to make the jump to prime time TV someday. It’s awful, nothing is suitable for kids or adolescents, and I can’t bear for them to see some of the teenagers on TV and think that’s how they’re supposed to dress, act, eat (or not eat), and behave.

We’ve flown with our kids since they were babies and the secrets are: Treats, play doh (use it on the seat trays), leapsters (if you have them) and a portable DVD player. Oh, and did I say treats, treats and treats? And have your momma bear glare ready for all the business travelers who will sneer at you and wonder how you had the gall to procreate. I am convinced there’s a whole portion of the population who forgot that one point they too were children and made noise and messes. I have literally said this line on a plane: “She’s three and doesn’t know any better. What’s your excuse for being horrible?”

Good luck!

krista

The plane is really not to bad it’s all the luggage you have to carry. I checked as much as I could but sometimes they loose it:( I would suggest pack as light as you can and bring a big stash of candy(maybe somthing chewy, to occupy there mouth). When JM starts screaming start shoveling in as much candy as possible:) We will be praying, good luck!!

Mary-Neill

Darby…love your blog…I’m usually just a stalker but wanted to say hello and thank you for entertaining me while I’m bored at work (and for preparing me for what life is like with kiddos since I don’t have any yet!). As far as tv goes, I agree that its mostly trash but I have to admit that I’m hooked on Project Runway and Top Chef!

So glad y’all are feeling better and good luck with flying!

Natalie

PBS has cute shows for kids. Pretty much everything else is garbage. We rent old movies.
We have an ancient washer and dryer that were given to us five years ago (and still work) so I can’t help you with the dryer situation.
I have two kids (ages 3 and almost 1) and most days the only time that I get to myself is when I exercise in the wee hours of the morning. Saturdays are usually family days, although I will occasionally slip out by myself if both kids are napping — a very rare occasion. I try to go somewhere by myself at least once a day, even if it is only a quick dash to the grocery store or gym.

Mandy

I have a front loader and have actually never noticed it smelling- don’t know what I do or don’t do but apparently it works! I usually leave the door open when I’m done. My clothes smell if I leave them in overnight (especially the dark clothes) but other than that, no smells- thankfully! Hope some of the other tips work! I definitely have not been very pleased with the front loader and don’t think I’ll buy another one, though.

We traveled a few weeks ago on a two hour flight with a 4 and 3 year old. The most stressful part was getting through security- put everyone in shoes that slip off easily for walking through the metal detector, clothes that are easy to manage for using the nasty public restrooms, take a small bottle of hand sanitizer for easy hand washing, and a stroller to keep at least two of them confined while you’re in the long security lines. We weren’t asked for an ID for the kids either in the Atlanta or Miami airports- two of the busiest so you shouldn’t either. Take gum for the girls to chew for their ears’ popping and headphones so you won’t have to buy them on the plane. Maybe your sweet mom will buy (or borrow) some (cheap) carseats so you won’t have to lug them through the airport and you’ll just have them when you get there instead of having to take them with you! Best wishes!

Hillary

I suggest taking up 2 rows. Put the children that kick in the seats behind those in your family that don’t (preferably a husband or someone who won’t be annoyed easily). That way you can minimize the glares :).

Alana @ Gray Matters

I don’t have a front loader and after these comments, I’m thinking I’ll never get one! I do have children the same age as yours (but 2 boys . . . so multiply Rover’s energy by 2) To give myself time, I sign up classes (sewing, digital photography, exercise). It makes my time away seem more official and important. If I’ve paid for a class, I’ll be sure to get there. I’ve never flown with all 3 kids at once – looking forward to learning from your experience. Glad you all are feeling better.

Jan

i wish that i had a front loader (only because i think it looks cool with all the color choices and is more energy efficient). i don’t know if this will work for a front loading machine, but i put a gallon of vinegar in my machine every now and then to get it cleaned out. i fill up my washer on medium load (without clothes) and pour in the vinegar. seems to keep things sparkling in my machine.
glad everyone is feeling better in time for halloween!

bellamia

Hi Darby! A couple of things- Tim made the decision 6 years ago to get rid of TV. I was not in total agreement because I love my Law-in-Order and TLC. Our initial reason why we got rid of it was not just because of the trash (cause sadly, we were probably a little immune to it then cause we watched it), but because of the time we spent watching it. Tim will tell you first that he would love to watch Auburn Football, then any college football, then any football what so ever! This obviously wasn’t healthy, so feeling convicted after Pastor Chase’s sermon one Sunday about practicing self control and getting rid of (throwing away) your idol…our TV was no more! It has been one of the best things we have done for our family, although when Elizabeth started 4P, my mom swears she didn’t know her numbers and letters as well as Jillian and Emily because she never had watch Sesame Street and Blue’s Clues like the others…HA! She is probably right. Obviously, we do not think Football is wrong, just realized that like any idol, the more of it you try to “fill” a void in your life, the more you need Jesus in its place! So, be careful, blogging can do the same!

I went to Japan (14hour flight) with Jillian when she was 6 yrs. Call me and I will give you some great tips for your girls, I have left a long enough comment already!

Kristin

Hi Darby,
I’ve never left a comment for you before, but have followed your blog for a very long time (and I’m not a “blogger”!). But I just have to tell you that today’s post put me over the top and I have to introduce myself. Before I write any more, my children are the exact ages and sexes of yours…and it cracks me up to see their photos and read of their little personalities b/c they are incredibly similar to my three. Caroline, my oldest, also turns 5 this coming week and we are also having her first “friend” party. I’m having it in our home, as it blows me away how overdone things are and the girls are going to play traditional birthday party games…she is beyond excited. I have another daughter who turned 3 in August, and our little boy was 1 in June. Now our only difference (I guess?), is that I’m expecting again (Yikes!). Anyway, they ate little toe heads, too, and yours remind me of them.
Okay…amen about television! We don’t have cable and never will. It is amazing to me how desensitized people become to what they see. Even regular network programming is filled with so much junk. As a follower of Christ, I find it both frustrating and sad. I’m very frustrated for my husband and other Godly men who strive to glorify God, yet deal with “smut” in every direction. And I’m sad that my children’s “normal” is so much dirtier and uglier than mine was 20-25 years ago.
And about alone time. I agree that alone time is crucial to being a patient mother and wife. With three very young children like you, I understand how difficult it can be to pull away…but I also know how ugly I become if I don’t recharge. My husband has suggested that I take a weekend and go somewhere by myself….I’m going to take him up on it when I get into my 2nd trimester and have a little more energy. Coffee shops and book stores are my favorite…either doing Bible Studies or browsing decorating magazines. And b/c life IS so crazy right now, I consider my two hours at Bible Study each week to be my time – the kids are in childcare, I get to fellowship, drink coffee,and I honestly get dressed and ready like I’m going on a date (that’s how much I look forward to that time!). I know your life is crazy, buy there is a book I want to share with you (perhaps you’ve heard of it or read it) that would be a good blog recommendation. It’s “Crazy Love” by Francis Chan (pastor of Cornerstone Church in Southern California). It’s life changing….I don’t believe I’ll ever look at my relationship with Christ and others the same! I know that you, too, will love it (and I feel confident saying that after reading about you for over a year!). Good luck flying…we have somehow managed to NOT fly with our children yet…I’m hopeful to wait another 5 years or so! 🙂 one last thought…we lived in Louisville from 2005-07 and were members of Southeast….LOVED that church!!!

Stacy

Ohhh!!! Rover on a plane…I saw the post of him in the car….saying a prayer right now for you, your family and the other 150 passengers! Good luck! I don’t mind traveling with my kids by plane. Brings lots of things to do, suckers and gum. (just in case their ears pop) The airlines ask you to bring ID, but we’ve have never been asked to show it. The kids will probably love the airport. Lots of planes and people watching! Some airports also have a kids play area.

Victoria

Wow, what a week!

I only have a 4 year old and I need to get out alone as well! A few friends and I used to meet for dinner once a month and that was heavenly. I’ll have to get back to doing that. It was so nice to talk and have others understand where you are coming from as a stay at home Mommy.

TV does stink (as do front load washers, evidently).

Amanda @ Serenity Now

Hi, Darby! Glad things are slowly getting better at your house. Hope you can get something for that (maybe?) stomach ulcer.

I think that having a little time for myself every now and then makes me a much happier, thus better, mom. 🙂 I joined a MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers–which, by the way, is open to all moms of infants to kindergartners) group when my oldest was about 10 months old, and it’s been wonderful. We meet twice a month on Thursday mornings. Our children are cared for by wonderful church volunteers in the nursery, and for two hours we get to have brunch, chat, maybe do a craft, or listen to a speaker. We also have a moms’ night out once a month, and a mom/kid event once a month. It is a “breath of fresh air.” I know not every group is the same, but I really love mine. 🙂

alston

darby, so glad the sickness is behind you! that’s such a sweet story about Paige — i could totally relate to both of you. poor little thing — i don’t blame her for being afraid of throw-up — i definitely am! and 5 felt like a big birthday at our house, too.

we traveled by plane A LOT until last year. the biggest trick for us was the car seat — we’d bring it on the plane and buckle them in and since they were used to it they were happy. but that may not work for you guys since Rover doesn’t like his car seat, right?! we also brought a portable DVD player. we don’t carry any identification for the kids. we’ll say a little prayer for you — hopefully, he will just charm the flight attendants:)

Tonja

Hi Darby,

Love keeping up with the children through your blog!

I have had a front loader since we moved into our house, almost a year. I have found that you must leave the door open AND the detergent door as well. That seems to take care of the problem for me.

Someone may have already said that, but I don’t have time to read through all the answers right now. Good luck!

Oh, and be sure you use ONLY the HE detergents as well.

Happy Fall to Y’all,

Tonja

Ashley

I don’t have a front loader so I am not sure if this will solve your problem, but I use about 1/2 – 1 cup of ammonia in each load. It works great! Your clothes will NOT smell like ammonia once they are washed and it won’t bleach your clothes. Our towels used to get musty smelling after one or two uses and now they don’t. I hate the way ammonia smells but it washes out. Also, you can use less detergent because the ammonia acts like a soap. Hope this helps.

Amy

Hi Darby. Love your blog. I’ve left a few comments before but wanted to again as we often fly with our kids. The best tip I can give you is to have the girls carry backpacks with their activities inside….crayons, stickers, books etc. For John Martin, I always carried 1 bag just for my little ones. I had a bunch of different activities planned (snacks, coloring, play dough, stickers, Mr. Potato Head, books etc.) but the most useful tip someone gave me was to put each activity into its own one gallon zip lock bag. That way once an activity had run its course, you could put all of it back in the bag, seal it and move on, without stuff all over everywhere….or in the bottom of your bag. Hope that helps. Have a great time.

Lisa

Front loaders are the best. When I bought mine 11 years ago everyone thought I was crazy – not now – they all have one or are going to buy one soon! Try a cycle with hot water and vinegar. Lisa

mommasissy

Hey Sister! I dry my washer when I get done washing – sounds like a pain, but it’s really not bad… I just run an old towel in along the gasket that seals the door. Mine doesn’t stink – but I also leave the door ajar always. Levi’s mom is in jail for selling prescription pain killers. I can’t believe media is giving him the time of day. Benedryl for Hornet? As far as tv goes – I watch Food Network – Ace of Cakes, Top Chef, etc.
I love you and am glad everyone is on the mend.
XOXO
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Hannah

I hate TV. Remember when we were kids and it was safe to watch TV until at least nine? We stick to Discovery Channel and Animal Planet as much as possible.

We have been sick here too, my daughter has been in my bed every night too. KILLING ME!! I need a solid night’s sleep and maybe a vacation (sans kids…maybe even sans husband…just quiet!)

Mandi

I was told to leave my front loader door open when not being used otherwise it will start to mildew. Maybe try washing it out with bleach then leave the door open from now on. I hope that helps. We just got ours so I have yet to run into the problem yet.

kendall boggs

oh, not to mention that the top scratches really bad.

melissa stover

i got out with friends today but i don’t often. i had this planned for a while so my husband took off a day of work to stay with the kids. they are 12, 10, 5 and 10 months. i almost always have at least one kid with me when i go somewhere.

i have no idea about flying with the baby. my baby is awful in the car. i can’t imagine on a plane. i’ll pray.

Amanda

Motrin for all before you board! Dose them in the car, so you don’t have to do the whole miserable zip-lock bag thru security with fluids thing . . . Buy a new electronic toy for all of them (they each get their own toy) and make sure they’re each loud enough to be heard over the roar of the plane. Forgive me, gummy bears are great, chewy and help the ears, but they go fast, so pack a bunch. Or maybe you need to give me a healthy-long-lasting-chewy-yummy treat idea for the next time I board the plane with a 3-year-old-potty-training boy and his darling-but-dramatic-baby sister.

Kendra

Darby… here are some ideas for the airplane. I went around and gathered dollar store things, new crayons, etc. and put the in a brown paper bag and decorated the front with all the fun things JH likes… then the inside of the bag was stuff he had never seen before:) he loved it! hope it helps:)

janet

Time alone with out my five kids= Barnes and Noble with a good book and a cup of Starbucks decaf. ( I have the same heartburn/ulcer thing).
Washer problem= call the manufacturer. I have a front loader and “knock on wood” have not had this problem yet. My suggestion is to do a bleach load daily.
Time out for myself= I lock my self in the laundry room and fold away. ( not much of a life I know).
Airplane rides with kids= Dimetapp the night before the flight. It is a decongestant. And Benadryl 1 hour before the flight.This will help prevent ear pain from the air pressure in the cabin of the plane. It will also help them to sleep right through it! Of course, ask your pediatrician first!

Laura Zarrin

When traveling with kids we’ve found a few things that work. Each kid gets a backpack with drawing supplies, toys, books that they can carry themselves. Portable video players. I suggest Real Wheels series, especially There Goes a Bulldozer (It’s been awhile, but I think that’s what it’s called) for the Rover. My guys were fascinated by the trucks and explosions.

The Rover will probably be fine if he can be on your lap. My guys didn’t like the car seat much, either, but planes were fine. Just bring drinks to help with the ear pressure.

Good luck!

Ashley

Oh I really loved this post! I totally agree with the TV thing and read more blogs!
I have never traveled on a plane with more than one child (the other was in my belly), but here is what helped me keep one sane (my husband did not fly with me). I pack a small canvas bag for her (she was 18 mon at the time) (a backpack might work for your girls) with small toys activities that she had never seen before. Pretty much I raided the $1 store. I also packed plenty of snacks…you just never know! All the activities kept her pretty occupied for most of the trip! The only time she was upset was when we arrived in NY and the taxi driver was eating a banana in front of her! HA! Hope this helps!:)

edie

I lost steam after reading a mere sampling of the comments so if these issues have been well-addressed, I apologize.

1. Front loader stink: I spent far too much time in a front loader chat room trying to figure this out and finally did. Things (socks, small stuffed animals, etc) get caught in the drain trap and then nasty stinky water just sits around and gets stinkier. If you remove the front botton panel (i had to go to lowe’s to buy a special tool—lugnut? maybe—to get the thing off, then there’s a big white drain that you need to unscrew, and have plenty of towels ready and open all the doors. It simply floored me how much stuff was hanging out in our drain. Now, no more smell. Till next time.

2. Tv stinks—amen. I read a book recently ‘Amusing Ourselves to Death’ by Neil Postman. Excellent book about the state of American minds because of the image-centeredness of tv. And he’s not even overly critical of the content—just the medium of communication. We have shifted from a word-centered (books) to an image centered society—-which means we ‘feel’ instead of ‘think’. Not good. It made me tighten the reigns yet even more on the ‘screen’ time of the kids.

3. Children on airplanes. Lots of little and new toys and treats. Magnetic paper dolls can be purchased at Cracker Barrel (a huge hit with my girls) I even brought small little containers of playdough. A pez dispenser or some tic tacs can get you through a good 15 minutes. Also, books on tape with little CD or tape players. I’m also not above medicating the very small. We did this when Emme was 2 and she slept for 11 hours straight! The grandparents may not like that.

Now I feel guilty for tempting you to read more fodder when you’re tired and behind.

I was so happy to see your post in my reader today, glad you’re at least feeling better enough to type!

Love to you all,
edie

samantha

Boy do I hate the stomach flu. I really feel your pain.

Do an empty load in your front-loader with bleach. Also, do your kids nap at the same time? That is my alone time and I treasure it! I don’t do anything productive or necessary during that time.

Love your blog.

dawson

Hi! So enjoy reading your blog! We made the pumpkin seeds last night, and they were so good. I had never made those, but your pictures made them look delicious. I’ve never commented before, but we have flown a good bit…

Thoughts about flying…we only have a 3 year old but have been flying with him since he was an itty bitty. Depending on the airport (BHM is really easy and nice) they usually let you bring drinks for little kids through security. They sometimes test them, but I think they get that it is a necessity. I like to pull it out of an actual diaper/kid bag for effect just so they know it is not mine. A few small books are great. Or a movie is best. Don’t forget earphones b/c while we may enjoy the soundtrack of Cars, other passengers may not. Also, when taking off and landing, we usually let our son have a piece of gum (makes it fun for him) so his ears will pop. We used to do the passy or bottle but we’ve moved on. I’ve learned that there are 2 types of people–those who have kids and understand and those who don’t. Those who do, will wish they could help you and those who don’t, well you just can’t worry a/b them. Enjoy it as much as you can and relax b/c all three will be so excited about their airplane adventure!

Megan

We flew a couple months ago with our 3 year old and 18 month old and it went really well. If you can, I suggest trying to make the plane ride around naptime. That seemed to help us. Both kids were out once we took off (or before). Our son rode in his car seat and was really well behaved. (He’s a good traveler in the car so I figured he’d be best in his car seat.) If JM will not have his own ticket and will be riding in your lap instead, you may have to have his birth certificate with you. Our airline required that we show proof of age. You can usually find that info ou on the airlines website.

The first time my son flew he was 15 months old and I was 6 months pregnant. He and I flew home by ourselves (without my helpful husband) and I was so stressed about being pregnant and handling him. However, it was a really great experience. It also helped that he slept both legs of the trip 🙂

Good luck!

Neila

My front loader used to stink. Dry out under the rim after each load. Run an empty load withe bleach. Put the bleach where you usually put the detergent, not the bleach section. Leave it open to “air out”
after washes. Then use the no odor for front loaders, about once a month.
Good luck!

Susan

Glad you all are on the back-end of the yucks. Our front loader smells bad and I take care of it. I leave the door and dispenser door open for it to dry out and I clean in between the rubber seal. My problem is that I did not know about this mildew issue until two years after I bought it. Some of the mildew in the rubber will never go away. Hence, I am so ready for a top loader, but it will have to wait! I have three little ones like you (almost 7, 4 and 16 months) but I do get out when all three have school which occurs on Tues and Thurs mornings. Unfortunately, I use those times to catch up around the house, cook dinner, run errands and if I’m lucky, exercise for 30 mins. I never use the time to recharge b/c I feel like I’m always trying to catch up on everyday life! I am trying to spend those 2+ hours Tues and Thurs mornings on me-time, but I have a hard time doing so. I’m trying to do better! Good luck on the trip to Chicago. You do not need IDs for your kids and at least the older two will love flying on a plane. With Rover, its all about survival!

Molly

I have had the appliance repair fellow out from ABT (your parents likely know all about ABT), and he said the only detergent to use with a front loader is Tide HE powder (NOT liquid) and always leave the door open after the load. Since then, no smells!

As far as traveling with kids, I have taken my four girls all over. The key is the new purse/tote stuffed with new notebooks, stickers, lip balm, colored pencils, stencils, stamps, tic tacs, books, small toys, etc. When they were really little, the Hello Kitty Outlet was a must shop.

Becky

oh pumpkin…i cannot imagine traveling by air with 3. i’d probably die. i don’t LOVE traveling by “land” with them. number 2. morgan starts school next year and let me just tell you…kindergarten is DIVINE. sent straight from the Lord, I tell you. and that’s no joke. you wouldn’t believe the mental break. however, being there with you, you HAVE to take some alone time. I usually get out alone, or have dinner with a girlfriend once a week. I go after micah gets home or after supper, just depending on the mood (and urgency that my mood may bring lol!) and it can be nothing more than just going to a store that i never get to go to alone and just walking around, or standing in the magazine aisle and reading, but not buying. or going to books a million. and i certainly don’t count my grocery shopping trips (that are always alone) as one of those trips. i’m still in working mode doing that (even though i’m sure i look like a total crazy these days cause i’m always listening to my MP3 player…relaxation cause i hate grocery shopping.) it makes me a better mommy and i feel NO GUILT. we don’t really have any babysitters around here, so unfortunately some of our “errands” have to be saved for the weekend. but we do what we can.

so glad yall are feeling better!! and can’t wait to hear about your travels. pack some good carry on bags with activities and food. that’s all the advice i can give!

Laura

No coffee since Monday?? You are a strong woman. I also agree with you about TV. I cringe thinking about all the things I could get done in the week if I just turned off the food network.

I recently stumbled upon your blog and love it! I started my own a few days ago and slowly-but-surely navigating my way in the blog world.

Have a happy Halloween!

Jennifer

How ironic- our local news just did a story on front loaders. It seems like the lady being interviewed determined that she had to wash her washer before every use!
I only have a 15 month old and he has flown a bunch. Bring SNACKS! They’re like the secret weapon (; My baby’s favorite thing is playing with the tray table- so we just hope that no one will be seated in front of us! Also- it’s such a new experience that sometimes observing is just good enough for him.
Glad that you’re feeling better!

heather morse

When I was about to buy a new washer and dryer..I read all of the consumer reports..and thus ended up with a top loader instead of a front loader washer because of the mildew issue that kept coming up in the consumer reports…

amy

Add a good sized slug of white vinegar to your washer before you wash the clothes, especially the towels.

When you’re flying, let the straps of the carseat all the way out and wear it on your back like a backpack when you are walking through the airport.

That’s all the knowledge I have — good luck!

Claire

Flying with kids= Benadryl or what I like to do is take a pack of pipe cleaners and make new creations for and with the kids. They are quiet and will entertain them for a while.

Getting out alone= Nights after kids are in bed, and YES Saturdays or Sunday afternoons. If you can’t take care of YOU, how can you take care of THEM?

Kara

Hi Darby,

I am not a parent yet, but every time I am on a plane and I see kids not happy and very fussy all I can think about is I wish I told them about the bags 🙂 My mom whether it was on a plane or a car ride for a week would show us a bag and talk constantly about all of the fun things she has for us. So she would hold on to the New backpack or bag until the door closed on the plane and then we would very quickly tear open the bag and play with all of the goodies we received. She would give us coloring books, crayons, snacks for the ride, any small toys, etc. Nothing extravagant just items that would keep us busy. Ps. the ride home you have to get creative, maybe keep a few items for the ride home so they have some new things to play with.

Good Luck!!

Jennifer

Our front loader was stinky too. I had a repair guy come out to fix a different problem with our dryer and asked him to look over the washer.

He removed a part underneath that the water drain’s through and oh, my gosh it was totally clogged with a toddler sock and other gunk. i guess tiny things like kids socks can get sucked through the drainage. so for months my washer had been struggling to drain and who knows what washed back up.

if you can unscrew the bottom front plate you will see the piece im talking about right in the middle. if you are brave enough you could unscrew it yourself and take a look. but have some towels ready and a trashbag.

good luck.
jennifer

Keri

Hi Darby, not sure how I found your blog, but I love reading about you and your darling family! We also have a front loader, and have always left the door cracked a little open (when we are not using it, of course) so the water can dry and mold does not form. We have never had a problem with it smelling, so I think this will work after you get rid of the smell!

As for traveling, I was really nervous the first time I flew with my daughter (she was 18 months at the time), I broke out in hives! She surprised me and did really well! We bought her a toy airplane at the airport and that seemed to amuse her as much as the real airplane! Good luck!!

Lisa

Here are some hints from flying with my 3 children: be ready with a bottle, sippy cup, chewing gum, or snack to encourage frequent swallowing while ascending and descending (so little ears can pop and adjust to pressure changes). You may have to purchase the liquids after passing the Home Security checkpoint. Maybe pack a powdered drink mixture to mix at the water fountain?

Pack special little backpacks for the girls with new crayons, little coloring books, gum, snacks, polly pockets, those new rubber band bracelets that have the shape of animals, anything that’s new & will keep them occupied at airports & on plane. Hold a few in reserve to present when desperately needed!

How about disposable cameras & little photo albums for the girls?

As for Rover–well, when we flew back & forth to Germany, I used to shamelessly slip my kids a little Dimetapp or Benadryl to help them nap. Definitely have drinks ready to help him clear his ears… maybe a new toy or two or a stuffed doggie? Good luck & God bless you! Your life keeps me entertained!

Jennifer

Okay…so…I don’t know if anyone else has requested it yet and I know that you said that you would…but PLEASE will you post that recipe for that pie?! Oh my goodness does that ever look delicious. Every time I come to your blog now, I salivate! And it’s sooo pretty too! LOL I LOVE your blog…have I said that before? I am sure that I have but one more time won’t hurt. You are awesome. : )

Hannah

Just traveled from NC to TX with two young children. They do not need their own ID. Packed each child their own back-pack. Used the same ones they carry to preschool. Bought multiple, inexpensive, new items that would help keep their attention. Of course, markers/crayons and paper go a long way. Also packed snacks in each of their bags — let them pick out their own gum, etc. Key is that you cannot pack liquids until after you get through security. I packed their empty sippy cups and then filled them with water after we got through security. Also, have them wear crocs or a shoe that slips on and off easily. Trust me, no time for laces when taking shoes on and off at security check point! My youngest child just hit the 35lb. point, so I went and bought 2 “backless” booster seats. The girls wore their backpacks on their backs and carried their booster seats. They sat in the boosters on the plane and the backpacks went under the seat in front. Frankly, I carried the boosters a good bit, but they are not heavy and it worked out fine. Point being, I did not have to worry about having a booster/carseat when I arrived, and I did not have to pay to “check” it. I think airlines are charging about $40/bag now, so anything you can carry saves a lot! It will probably go better then you think; it is the unknown with kids that is such a source of worry — at least for me!

As far as the front loader, i think the suggestions on here are spot on. From what I’ve been reading online and on blogs, keep the washer door open every time the machine is not in use, use the HE detergent, and use bleach or vinegar washes occassionally.

Hang in there. This week will be better!

Emily

You probably have mold in the washer. It happens A LOT with front loaders. Just google it and you will find tons of reports of people who found mold in the plastic lining in the door of their washer. You will also find ways to figure out if you do indeed have mold and how to get rid of it. Good luck!

Kelly

I knew from your tagline that I would love you… Sally Clarkson is one of my favorites and such a mentor for me as a Mom:-) Reading back through older posts confirmed my initial impression- you are just darling! Love your blog and if I didn’t have tons of laundry I would happily spend the rest of the afternoon perusing your archives.
I’ll be back though, when I get caught up on my house!

becky

my washing machine used to smell bad sometimes and my washing machine fixer man said that every month or so, i should run it on the max temp with absolutely nothing inside – no clothes no detergent.

he said this will ‘melt’ down all the gungy suds that accumulate at the back of the drum and eventually stink it up…
i have been doing it for the last year and it seems to be working,
so good luck
becky
ps enjoy yr blog
xxx

molly

The plastic/rubbery sealer part by the front needs to be wiped down/out and scraped clean. There is scary build up in there I tell you. And always always leave it open when not in use.

Oh and about the airplane. I have only two kiddos but have done an international flight twice. Once with just one and once with both. Lots of snacks, lots of new toys and never feel like you have to apologize. If one screams, you just deal. Life’s not perfect and neither will an airplane ride be perfect. You’ll survive and be glad you conquered. Good luck!

Jacquelin

Hi! I found you from Edie’s site. I just love the roman shade, just what I have been looking for. You have a beautiful family. I too have a front loader that works overtime for me 6 days a week. I fill the bleach cup holder with vinegar when it starts to get stinky and run it through an express wash cycle, does the trick. Also, it is doable to travel with the kids. I flew across country 7 months pregnant with my four girls from WA state to VA this past June. My hubby was deployed and we were moving across country. We made it, but it was an adventure to say the least, especially when our carseat got stuck on the airplane seat and took the whole flight crew, Captain and all to figure out how to get it off.

April

We had our washer serviced last year and the service guy was soooo nice! I was talking to him about the smell issue and he said it’s really, REALLY common and that the mfr knows all about it, started selling the ‘cleaner’ for it (that does nothing) etc. He said the best thing that he recommends to all of his customers if vinegar. Do an empty load on the super hot and just use vinegar, no soap, etc, and it cleans out the tank, sanitizes it, kills all the germs/mold/gunky stinky stuff. So now we do that about once a week and no more stink! We can’t leave the door open cuz we have a 14 mo old who would love to show us his mad climbing skills, but thankfully the vinegar trick works.

I’m new to your blog and LOVE it!!

Stephanie

You have more than enough advice (who knew so many people had stinky washing machines?!) but here are just two more thoughts on flying. First, we take the disposable place mats (from Babies R Us) and stick them to the tray tables when we first get on the plane and then we have a clean place to serve snacks for the rest of the flight. I’ve got zip loc bags of all kinds of fun snacks – especially the expensive stuff I don’t normally buy. We spend the majority of the flight eating. It is the only thing that keeps my 13 month old (who desperately wants to walk all the time) on my lap! We bring about 5 or 6 books too. Other toys usually only occupy her for less than a minute before they are thrown into another row but we can read each book quite a few times. Second, I find most people on planes are very understanding when parents are trying their hardest. From what I’ve seen of your family on your blog, you don’t need to worry! Have a great trip!

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An interesting discussion is definitely worth comment.
I do think that you should publish more on this subject, it may not be a taboo subject
but generally folks don’t talk about such topics. To
the next! Kind regards!!